Thursday 17 February 2011

"Silence is Golden"

When we speak we are communicating with one person and losing oppurtunity to do conscious breathing.

Better form of communication is to write a mail we can use the email to send n number audiance.

We also do concsious breathing while creating mail.

Words once spoken can never be taken back. Remember what happened to RespectedDraupdi, if only Mother Kunti was speaking less and writing more the history of India would been different. Email we can edit, save in draft, improve or delay but these benefit are not available with direct speaking.

if no speaking is as situation then Speaking less will suffice. Speaking more always makes the situation worse and silence has a moderating effect.

Thirteeth US President Mr Kelvin Cooliage used to speak very less. Once a reporter asked him
he has been US President and if he has regret for speaking so less. He replied he has no regret for not speaking but the whatever regret he has is only for whatever little he has spoken.

Chinese Thinker Lao Tse was the propogant of minimal speaking. He was thinker with no comparison in his times. When he aged his disciple begged him to communicate his thought so that they may be penned down his thought for benefit of future generation.

There is small story about him. He used to take morning walk with his friend. His friend said what a beautiful morning. Next LaoTse refused to walk with his Friend. When his friend asked him Lao Tse said you speak too much. Lao Tse was enjoying the morning but his friend spoilt it by saying it was beautiful.  


Let us pledge to be man of more action and emails of less words.